How To Be Yourself (3 Steps)




   Being yourself is as easy as it sounds. Though being yourself might seem like a thing you find yourself not being able to do.
   Steps to being yourself comes with 3 headings. Look at them below..  

Know Yourself
    This simply means identifying yourself, knowing what you are capable of.
   When you know your strengths and weaknesses, then you know what you need to change about you.
   Being able to know what you are capable of helps in this case because it shows who you really are and if you are actually real. Some points you need in knowing yourself includes:
  • Honesty and 
  • Open mindedness. 
  This helps alot, because when you are honest with yourself. Then knowing yourself would be a lot easier. 
   Open mindedness comes into the picture because no one knows you better than you!. It's simply the willingness to try out new things.

Adapt Good Human Relationship
    This step is all about your relationship with people. This takes like 75% of everything concerning "being yourself". 
   Knowing exactly how you act around others will show if you are really being yourself at all. You can know if are not being yourself if you.. 
  •  Compare yourself to others. 
  • Displease yourself to please people. 
  • Treat people how you don't want to be treated. 
  • Worry about what people think or say about you. 
They are more, but these should be the core ones. Not to talk much on this 2nd step
  The only thing you need do now is start doing the opposite of the words on pink listed above. 
  • Stop comparing. 
  • Stop being a people pleaser. 
  • Treat people exactly how you want to be treated. 
  • Stop caring about what they think!! 

Acceptance
    This is accepting that change takes time and is constant. 
Think of yourself as a work in progress. Write down your wins and looses. 
   Know that everyday must not be as planned and that everybody must not accept you as you are. Just like this quote "Be a good person but don't waste your time proving it". 

  And also remember that being yourself is something you might be doing unknownly. But due to the fact that the world doesn't get it, you might get stuck trying to be Yourself when you really are. 

  I would love to know your thoughts on this and if it helped you in anyway. 🌸

4 comments:

  1. Anonymous1/6/17

    This is nice.. Keep it up

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  2. Anonymous1/6/17

    Yes this is really nice.. Can't wait to read more of your posts

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