How to improve your personality | 6 tips

Personality :

According to oxford dictionary is the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual's distinctive character.

Why improve my personality? :


This can be as a result of anything because change is constant and you might as well feel you need that change in your life and in your relationship with others. 

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1. IDENTIFY YOUR TRAITS 

This simply means knowing what you are capable of. This can be done by writing it down on a paper or journal,somewhere safe.

This is where  deep thinking and self honesty comes in. Be honest and group those characters of yours under where they are meant to be.

That is why i mentioned above that honesty comes first when dealing with ourselves. Pick out those traits you feel guilty of. 
Same for the good ones. 

2. KEEP AN OPEN MIND 


This simply means willingness to try out new things. This should also includes:

Practice self care.

Keeping in touch with people.

Becoming a good listener. 


3. IMPROVE  YOUR  BODY  LANGUAGE  


Body language give us out alot. In this case we are focusing on the EYES.
 Try to make eye contact when talking to people. It shows you are a bit intrested in whatever the person is saying. 


4. BE A POSITIVE PERSON


Nothing pisses people off than someone who is a pessimist. 
Its hard though but being positive also helps others around you. 
If you are a positive person, you will attract positive things. 

5. KEEP A TRACK ON YOURSELF 


That is why keeping a journal is important. 
Go back and check if you kept to words about improving over the Weekend. 
Keep tracks on things you did and didn't do; in that way you would know if you are really improving or not. 


6. IT'S OKAY TO MAKE MISTAKES 


we all are not perfect. 

So falling off the tracks is not something you should worry about. 

This is a gradual process. You have to keep trying like "faking it till you make it" sort of thing.  





Feel free to drop your thoughts in the comments box. 
Tell me if this was helpful. 





1 comment:

  1. Nessa13/7/17

    Intresting tips.. Nice job creamq.

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