How To Love Yourself More-7 Ways

   
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    We already have steps from my last post How To Practise Self Care  , that self love is something you do for you and a thing of the heart.
   Let's consider some reasons why we should even practise self love. It's simple "if you don't love yourself, no one will!!"
   Loving yourself depends a lot on you and you should, as a matter of fact, you should love you. 
    It takes steps and determination and lots of letting go. But it works better if you are ready and interested in loving yourself.

   Take a look at these laid down steps below:

1. ANALYSE YOURSELF.

  • Who are you and what makes you stand out in the crowd?
  • What are those things you feel you are lacking?
  • What do you need them for?
     If you setting your priorities straight you should be able to group yourself (what you have and what you don't have) in no time.

2. CHECK IF YOU ARE MAKING GOOD USE OF WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE.

  •  Are you making use of what you have at the moment?
  • What are your limitations?
  • What name have you made for yourself with what you already have?

3. CHECK YOUR ASSOCIATION.

Toxic?..RUN!!🏃🏃🏃
    As easy as it sounds,it might take a while to detach yourself from people who make you feel less of yourself. But it's something that needs to be done and fast.
    You must be choosy about the type of people you associate with in life,because your association determines how far you go in life.
  Think about people who bring you up and not bring you down!

4. CHECK THE 'WHAT IFS'

    Think about this: what if you had everything you thought you were lacking would you have gone this far in life?
   Most people reminisce on what they want forgetting what they need.
  • Are you wanting or needing?
  • Are you wanting the right things for you?
  Think about this.


5. ACCEPTING WHO YOU ARE.

   Acceptance makes it a lot easier. When you don't love yourself, people tend to see through your insecurities and use it against you . 
Love you and see what happens when you learn to be comfortable in your own skin.
   Many people spend their entire lives trying to change the way their were made. Be what you are and you will be at peace with yourself.

6. TRY HARD TO AVOID REMINDERS.

    Stay away from places or people that remind you of your flaws.

7. PATIENCE

  Be patient. All things are difficult before they become easy._ saadi

  FINAL NOTE:

   Don't try to imitate anyone and think you will get anything out of it.
   You are unique, you are special and you are not like the rest of the world and that's makes you special.



3 comments:

  1. Beth4/6/17

    Goodness!!
    This is great..This is really nice.

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    1. I appreciate. Thank you.

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  2. Bernardino12/6/17

    This is well written

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