Self Respect: How To Respect Yourself

Self Respect

    Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. 
   If you don't respect yourself, others won't either, No matter how well you think you carry yourself, if you don't value yourself it will show and you will be treated as what people perceive you as". 
   People often confuse ego with self respect. It's wrong!. It's called knowing your limit and what bullsh*t you can take! 

Here are some guides to acquiring Self-Respect  in the right way :


1. Don't be a copy 

   This is the first and force most step to self respect. Chose to be Yourself. 
  Originality makes you appreciate yourself more. Remember if you don't value yourself it will show and you will be treated as what people perceive you as. 

2. Be HONEST in your dealings with others. 

   Don't let misunderstandings grow, be plain and direct but don't be harsh or rude. 
  People tend to secretly love those who tell them the truth,  but in a nice way. 
  Also, be dependable :let your YES remain YES and let your NO remain NO. 

3. Practise good self care. 

   Both mentally and physically. 
  Be neat. Be optimistic. Be slow to decide. Smell nice. 
   This makes you attractive and interesting. 
Dress appropriately for any occasion, dress how you want to be addressed.

4. Practise good public etiquette. 

    This includes: your body language, table manners, dressing, body grooming, everything! 
  You teach people how to treat you by what you reinforce. Be coy. Be kind. Be good. Be punctual to occasions. Shy away From Small Talks. Be slow to speak. 

5. Be Mysterious in a good way.

    I don't mean being shady. Be Mysterious, don't let everyone know what you are up to all the time.      That is why it is important to avoid small talks because those you discuss others with will soon discuss you with others. 

6. Don't be quick to jump Into Relationships. 

   Create boundaries first. Relax and be friends with you first. 

Final words :

   Don't loose your dignity trying to make people love you. Respect yourself enough to say "i deserve peace".   

 


3 comments:

  1. Kazim19/6/17

    Useful post

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  2. Danny.dk19/6/17


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