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4 Ways To Get Him To Chase You Instead.

'Sequel to 5 Signs You Might Be Doing "the Chasing Thing"   Getting a guy to chase you holds a lot of work from your side especially on on one who might not be interested, it needs lots of patience and perseverance.     The chances of these tips working on him depends on your relationship with him, though it is proven to work faster on guys you've just met (or still wooing you). For it to work on other guys (an ex or a crush who hasn't noticed you yet), it might take time.    Well, Ladies if you have been trying so hard to get this guy's attention or let's say guilty of "the Chasing Thing". Time to Stop✋!      Men love the chase, they hate women who seem needy. They respond more to "secure women". Though people say "if you love someone, show them you do", it doesn't really work that way for men of this century, they love the chase; so give it to him and watch him go nowhere. 
Here are the ways for getting a guy to do the…

5 Signs You Might Be Doing "the Chasing Thing" .

Taking a break from self Management/ improvement posts... Pheww!! and stepping into some topics that concerns us Ladies.
   "The Chasing Thing", my definition of this is: doing all the work in a pre-relationship or post-relationship.
    This has been buzzing on lately. I mean we were told not to do "the chasing thing" right before we were born, we have been keeping to that...just a few slips here and there.
   Some men are some kind of people, they make us work way too hard for them when it should be the other way round, no offence. They like to keep a sort of storage technique: "if Sarah don't work, Mitchell might, so let's keep Mitchell interested", yaay!. To them it sounds fun, but to us Ladies. It's Not.
   So there is this guy you reeeeeeally Like, you talk to him a lot but something tells you, you are the one doing all the "work", like something is not balanced...you might be guilty of "the chasing thing"...

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5 Ways To Achieve Success in Anything

The secret of success for every person who has been successful lies in the fact that he formed the habit of doing those things that failure don't like to do.  
   Success means prosperity, winning, achievements!. Every human wants success.            Nobody wants to be left out or called SECOND-CLASS, every one wants FIRST-CLASS. 
   The number 1 secret of success is BELIEF. 
"believe you will and you will "
" believe you can't and fail"


 Here are Five guides to acquiring success in anything :1. Know the value of Time. Time is very precious. Everyone of us has 24hrs to manage everyday, but what we make of it determines how far you can go in success.    Make good use of your time doing something worthwhile. Don't procrastinator: This is why many people don't actually get there in life, because they put off till tomorrow what they could have done today. 
2. Don't shy away from opportunities. Opportunities are everywhere, to be successful we must be rea…

Self Respect: How To Respect Yourself More

"Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. 
  If you don't respect yourself, others won't either, No matter how well you think you carry yourself, if you don't value yourself it will show and you will be treated as what people perceive you as". 
People often confuse ego with self respect. It's wrong! 
It's called knowing your limit and what bullsh*t you can take! 

Here are some guides to acquiring Self - Respect  in the right way :


1. Don't be a copy   This is the first and foremost in self respect. Chose to be Yourself.    Originality makes you appreciate yourself more. Remember if you don't value yourself it will show and you will be treated as what people perceive you as. 
2. Be HONEST in your dealings with others.   Don't let misunderstandings grow, be plain and direct but don't be harsh or rude.    People tend to secretly love those who tell them the truth,  but in a nice way.    Also, be dependable…